Joy of motherhood

My best friend had her baby on Friday the 18th. Its a joyful and painful time for her cause last year the same time she was expecting her first and at 6 months she was battling with high blood pressure for two weeks she was in hospital and so they had to do a emergency Caesar so Haley was born weighing only 854g she was healthy and breathing on her own the Dr was positive she was going to make it. Haley did not only a week old she past away. I still get shivers when I think about it I got the SMS on 4 March 2005 at 18:18,24 still got the SMS on my phone from Riska(it was in afrikaans)that her angel flew to heaven and that she died at 14:40.

The Friday before she went in with Tamlyn I went to visit her looking through her scrapbook album there was photo's of Hayley on the machines with her little foot prints they've made with lipstick. The only thing she said is that she just hopes everything goes well and that she cant go through that ordeal againg.I told her that it will and it did everything went well. A healthy baby Girl Tamlyn is born.Hope she brings joy to her parents.I know Hayley will live within their hearts. They will always wonder how it would of been if she made it. Gods got plans with everybody even though she only got to live for a short period she will always be missed by her mommy, daddy and sister.

How was your Valentines Day

BAD NEWS N O T H I N G!!! H A P P E N D!!!

Sorry nothing happend. No kiss no happy Valentines nothing. The only thing half romantic was he ordered pizza thats all. So I better accept it that I will never have a valentines Day full of surprises. And that is the way he will stay. The Lingerie story: nothing had to pick up Danielle so I could not stop to get anything.
Face it there is 365 days in a year minus one day for Valentines day gives you 364 I will rather take the 364 days than Valentines day. If you think about its only for the shops to make money after all the big spending at Christmas time Jan and Feb is a poor month for them so to make something they have VALENTINES DAY.
Yes maybe I am just jealous because I did not get anything or will never.

WHAT'S VALENTINES DAY!!!

083 948 I am a very romantic type of person but if you with somebody that is not and you have tried every trick in the book you just give up.
This morning was just a normal morning for me got up get ready no surprises lurking somewhere. At the beginning I would still hope that somewhere in his macho ego will unveal this romantic movie type of guy nope been nearly 5 years and still no luck only thing I got in five years for valentines day was a chocolate with a heart on saying "YOUR ADORABLE" a still have that little heart and will show our kids one day that daddy can be romantic. I think I must frame it and hang it in the passage maybe that will remind him the little things counts to. He is romantic in his own special way.
Maybe I will surprise him tonight will go to the lingerie shop at lunch time maybe that will do the trick I will surprise him tonight
WATCH THIS BLOG WILL REVEAL WHAT HAPPENED!!! (HOLD THUMPS)

I WAS TAGGED!!

HI EVERYBODY SORRY IM ONLY DOING MY TAG NOW BUT WAS AT WORK BUT THEN HAD TO TAKE LITTLE ONE TO DR AND STAYED WITH HER

4 jobs you have had:

1. Working at the spur as a waiter and room service(Holiday Inn)lady
2. Girl Friday/bookkeeper at A & L Fire
3. PA to a director at Able Tracers and Debt collectors
4. Receptionist and Admin Clerk at Fintax PE Trust

4 movies you could watch over and over:
1. Annie (was my favorite movie as child knew every word)
2. Madagascar (watched it about 50 times with my little one)
3. Leon Schuster movies
4. There's something about Mary

4 places you have lived:

1.Was born in Evander a small town near Secunda(lived there, there was no hospital so my mom had to travel 30km to the nearest hospital)
2. Port Elizabeth - moved back when I was 2 and still live here

TV shows you like to watch:

1. 7 de Laan - Local soapy
2. Entertainment channel 41 on dstv
3. Egoli local soapy
4. Discovery Channel of dstv

4favoritee books:

Dont get much reading done lately.

4 places you have been on vacation:
1. Cape Town
2. Johannesburg
3 Durban
4. Plettenburg Bay

Have never left the country - one day I will be able to.

4 websites you visit daily:

1. Yahoo
2. oodlesofnoodlesoffun
3. and just looking and playing around

4 favorite foods:

1. Pasta
2. seafood
3. Pizza
4. Veggies

4 places you would rather be right now:

1. Italy
2. Seychelles
3. not at work at home
4. Disneyland

WHAT CAN WE GIVE THEM TO STOP GROWING

The Old people always said give your child some brandy it will stop them from growing if it was only so.
Got a big throb in my throat in the week I was unpacking all Danielle (now 19months) baby clothes (not that shes is all grown up) out to give Sonja(to my other halfs sister which is expecting in 2 months time)to use.
When I suddenly released how much she has grown in only 18teen months its unbelievable and a sad story.Looking at the clothes remembering how she looked in it. And cant believe that just a few months ago she fitted into that little pants. You miss that little bundle of joy to cuddle and now they just want to cuddle when they want to
Terrible twos here we come.