Miss Mischief!!!

playing in the mud this morning. We had a lovely sunny day.


Getting some more mud




Little Miss Muffet. She got hold of my sunglasses. I tell you she is now a real miss busy body. Wish I had her energy somedays.


Madam found out she can open taps. When I got to the bath it was nearly over flowing. She does not want me to sit there she tells me "Go" so I leave her and check every second. I was busy with the dishes when I heard the geyser still running.


The second house hubby is busy with

Hubbies first mayor house he had attempted and a big success its a major big house. Double double garage, cinema room, lounge, kitchen, scullery, study 2 rooms with en-suite, main bedroom with dressing room and ensuite. I did try to take photos inside but my phone cant zoom small enough.

Hope you all had a great weekend we were at home and friends. We made a nice chicken spit braai (bbq) today and the day was such a nice summer day.

Some Tests

I have not been feeling well the past 2 months. I am so tired everyday some days a sleep during the afternoons some days not. As soon as I got Danielle all sorted out at night time then I am all over my tiredness then I cant sleep. I only go sleep like 23:oo up during the night, up by six and then here by 11:00 I cant keep my eyes open anymore. Lots of people has been playing my doctor saying it could be you blood pressure, your thyroid, your hormones and cant think of what else.

So I have decided to go to the doctor so that they could run some test. So I went yesterday he said we will test all of that and then take it from there. Danielle does not sleep through. That is the main reason I took her dummy away from her but now I am waiting for her to fully recover from her tonsils. They say it takes about 10 days for them. I spoke to the doctor and told him I don't know if its that too that's really getting to me. So he gave me a bescription something I could give to her at night just to make her more at ease.

I wont give it to her until after she recovered from her tonsils and I see that she does not sleep through. Its been going better since I took her dummy away she only wakes up once crying but that is because she has still got some pain. So I am hoping that she will sleep through now. I am going to give her another week's will only get my test results in next week I think Tuesday, Monday is a public holiday again here in South Africa, National Heritage Day I think. I hope you all have a good weekend now.

We got some nice fest going this weekend but we wont be going because hubbies got a house to finish. I must actually take some photo's to show you its one biiiggg house. It must be finished by the end of this month and he is busy with the next one through the floor of the foundation today. I must go see the gym to hubby signed us both up yesterday but the lady has to speak to head office because I still got a unsettled amount and I am going to give them a hard time because somebody did not do there work the day I cancelled my contract. We will see. I cant wait for Monday to start gym again. Gym was my life before Danielle.

Two weeks

Today it has been two weeks since miss madam does not suck dummy (pacifier) anymore. She does not even ask for it. She came the Monday to the drum asking about the goggo and I gave her the dummy and as she was about to put it into her mouth I just told her no its not nice, took it out look at me all puzzled and just through it back into the drum.

At the hospital she found one in the box of toys and went and threw it into the drum. She is not fond of her toweling nappy as well. Maybe it was only a good combination with the dummy. We got our new caravan last night will take some photo's. I cant wait for December, holiday time. On the beach, Braai (BBQ), hearing the waves break as you sleep cant wait.

short post. Hope you all are well.

Going Well

Well everything has gone well for my aunt and my soon to be mother in law. My aunt was discharged today she has a little pain but not to bad. She recovered very good. For my mother in law well it will be still a while before she would be discharged she is still in the ICU. Went to see her today. I just hate hospitals and especially the ICU it really gets to me to see all these people on heart machines and every machine you can think of. She is still in a lot of pain but looks very good for someone that had a VERY BIG operation. They might put her in a normal ward tomorrow. All her pipes and all is all coming out tomorrow. We all pray that this would be the last she spends in a hopital and that this operation is a major success.

At the hosital hubbies dad was there to so we reconciled not that there was any vibes between us but he is just a very difficult man to please and to understand you either like him or don't. I never had a problem with him just that one time. I think the whole thing was that I did not kept my mouth shut.He does not like that. So that's another thing off my shoulder. It really bugged me the past few weeks.

I finally got the time to get hold of another driving school. I am not going to the one that I started with because I know the guy. Did not know when we spoke on the phone only saw who he is when he game to pick me up for my lesson. Will see how my day goes tomorrow, I want to go make an appointment for my license then I must give him a call he said then he can prepare me for that. Hold thumps please

In my prayers!

Two people very dear to me is having a operation tomorrow. Hubbies mom is having a big operation and I hope that it would be an success so that it would make her life more livable. The past few months was hell for her.In and out of hospital,she suffers from bad acid reflux and she has gone for 4 operations and nothing has helped her. Her lungs are so badly injured of this acid reflux that she has beed in hospital since Wednesday so that they can make sure the lungs are strong enough for the operation. We must all pray for her because her lungs could collapse during surgery but its a chance she is willing to take to make her life more living. They will transfer her to ICU straight after the operation. She is such a cute little lady wont hurt a fly. After my incident with daddy inlaw monster I have not seen him since and according to her he is still cross with me. He can be really childish sometimes. She really wanted to see her before the operation at the hospital and he just said she must not start. But M's sister is allowed with her baby, even if she is only 5 months old still. What is good for the goose is good for the gander ( hope I have set it right)

My aunt (like my second mom) is also going for an operation a hernia something replacement. She also suffers similar to hubbies mom but hers is not in a bad stage yet. So I hope and pray for ther that the operation would be successful. So I am playing babysitter for my aunts grandchildren for the time she is in hospital. Luckily I only stay like 5 houses from the primary school were I must get two of them Ashleigh-Jade in Grade2, I normally go fetch her with Spotty she loves him. I must fetch her basically everyday from school with the dog and if I dare skip a day and her granny fetches her she is highly upset wont even get in her grannies car and Brandon in grade7, Candice comes with the bus she is in High School already. So hope you all had a good weekend not like my boring weekend was under house arrest with Danielle making sure she heals properly. Bye for now.

Growing up

Mommy's independent little girl. She dresses herself and don't want help of anybody. Here is the proof.



Danielle and her cousin just loves each other. Owen is about 2 months older than her. But believe it or not some people think that they are twins if we go to the mall with them together. Bath time is her favorite.

Hospital update

Danielle had her tonsils removed today and what a day. From 02:00 this morning she was not aloud to drink anything anymore. My luck she slept right through to 06:30. When she woke up she wanted her bottle and had to tell her over and over that its still hold (shushu). I made a bottle of tea (hot) and she would just give it back to me to tell me that its hot.
keeping madam busy before her operation.
So we arrived at the hospital all fine. She was done about 9:00 and came out about just after 10. They removed her addinoids when she was 9months old and had to remove it again, her tonsils and placed grommets in her ears. You just see all the moms come out with red eyes and trying to hide the tears. But its hard to see your little bundle of joy on that big operation table. They gave her gas to put her out at first I went in with her and she was quit good until the gas started to kick in. I just turned around I could not handle the feeling and seeing her eyes rolling in her sockets and they asked me if I wanted to leave now and I said yes please.
Did not want the band on her hand
She slept a good while before she took the whole ward up by storm and the people just could not believe how well she recovered. She has beed very independent since after her 1st birthday, the people could not believe that she fed herself dressed herself without me helping (she does not want me to help her). We were discharged about 14:00. She was running around at home being her old miss busy body self.

some photo's of her Birthday



Danielle, Me and Leah. Her twin friend from school



Her Birthday cake. Her Theme was Tinkerbell

Me and her having a good time on the jumping castle. Being a mom is exploring the child still in you.

Sliding down. Cant believe she is growing up so fast.

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Took this on Sunday at the game centre. They have this machine that takes a photo then you can have it sketched like this one or in color. Its me, Danielle, Owen (her cousin), my youngest sister Ronel.

Will publish more photo's next time.

What happened!!!!!!

I was playing around trying to make my blog another color and there I did it but lost all my other goodies so now I must go back and get the codes to paste it into my template. I am sitting with a problem I cant remember the passwords. Stupid me I can really go as a blond sometimes (no offense to any blond reading). I need some PLEASE.

Is everybody busy the past few days or what or is my blog getting a bit boring because I see I don't get a lot of readers anymore. I visit a lot of blogs but due to the internet at home some blogs takes forever to open for me to leave a comment like Babs, Reluctant Nomad, Mr Froggie. So its not that I don't visit your site is just that I can not leave a comment it takes sometimes like 5 minutes to open.

Took Danielle to the nose ear and throat specialist on Friday. They are going to remove her tonsils. He gave me the choice but he said that her tonsils doesn't look good the time period of infection will only get nearer to each other. Danielle is a (toweling) nappy and dummy baby. So on Thursday night I discovered a dummy of hers that's got some mould inside so I showed her the dummy and told her its a goggo. I know its cruel of me but it was my only way out to get her
of the dummy. She asked for it like a thousand times and asked her if she wanted her goggo dummy and she just shake her head no. She only really fell asleep like 1:00am. I slept with her on her bed because she was calling me all the time. They said it only takes 3 days to take a child of the dummy and it really does I would say 2 days she hasn't asked for it again. I don't know what her reaction will be when she sees a dummy will found out tomorrow at school

Hope you all had a great weekend.

Missed me!!!

Hi all sorry I have been so quiet was sorting my phone out. Got my new phone on Friday, Samsung D820 did not want a Samsung again but the insurance already spoke to hubby. He said yes to the claim. I was so cross I wanted the new Sony Ericsson K900 well its new here by us. I could not get to the computer to say hi because hubby was watching movies all the time. Can see that I was missed well at least there is people out there that misses me. Ha Ha Ha. Missed you guys to now I must catch up again.

August was not my month and now it seems like September is not Hubby's. They broke into his container at his site (the house he is busy building) and stole about R30 000 worth of stuff and then he dropped his phone in the toilet (don't ask me how "men")so more drama.

got so much to tell you guys. In the 5 years hubby and I have been together I have never had words with his mom or dad and Friday was the first with his dad. I was so cross I felt like smacking him. Just thinking about it makes me all tensed up again. M's mom was in hospital again and she asked me to bring Danielle because she misses her (still the same drama with her she still don't make any effort on her side)

The last time that she was in the hospital Hubbys dad asked me not to take Danielle because she messed on the floor and she does not want to sit still. So I told her that the uncle is going to through his toys out the cot and she reassured me he wont mind. So I took Danielle to her on Wednesday night, Danielle was quite sweet. When grumpy old grandpa arrived I left. So on Friday when I went to fetch my phone I quickly dropped in to say hi to hubbys mom. His dad was there. Wait let me just take a few breaths 1, 2, 3, ok. So he said I must please not bring her because I can not control her because, wait 4, 5, 6, (its not working),I do not teach her correctly about what is wrong and right (ek maak haar nie reg groot nie),she smacks you in the face and she does not want to kiss a person if she does not feel like it.

I told him who the hell does he think he is to tell me that. He is not in my house to see how I reprimand Danielle and another thing is she is only 2 years old and not 30. Before he could say anything else I just walked out because I would say stuff that would regret later. I am just that kind of person I would not keep my mouth shut for anybody I will say my say. She never see's them like ones in three weeks of course a child of her age wont just kiss anybody. The reason why she smack them the ones is because they started irrating her because they want to kiss her and she doesn't want to. I know that was not right but she is off that because I worked on that bad point with her. She is still exploring with things you cant smack the living day lights out of a child on that age just because they are not aloud to do this and that you will give them a bad start in live.

He was the worst dad there could be and now he wants to preach me. I have not spoken to him again. I told hubby that I would not take Danielle to there house again because she is not aloud to touch this and do this and the list goes on. Friggin hell she is a child not an adult. 7, 8, 9, 10. Still did not help, wait let me go pour me a glass of wine that will calm me.

Our family's our so much different. My family is very close. Likes to do things together and his is like in totally different. Wanted to upload a photo of my 2 sisters and I with our little ones and my granny but blogger is being a pain again will ask Froggie to do it. That was the phote I send to
Mr Froggie. So hope I did not bore you all. Thanks for all the nice things you guys said about me and Reluctant Nomad does it mean you will turn straight for me.